Farmer Wants a Wife Australia 2024‘s Sarah Cranley has revealed that Farmer Tom GHOSTED her twice before during their messy AF breakup.
Whilst coming across as a sweetheart on-screen, multiple contestants have called Tom out for being “rude” and “immature” behind the scenes.
His runner-up, Krissy Smith, even outed him for ghosting her and the other ladies on his farm post-filming.

However, during her tell-all in episode 400 of the So Dramatic! podcast, Tom’s final pick, Sarah, said he ghosted her too. Sheesh!
What happened between Sarah and Tom after the Farmer Wants a Wife Reunion?
Despite seeming quite loved-up at the Reunion, things went downhill for Sarah and Tom shortly after.
“We went to the farm for a week or two. Then I came home to Perth to start my new job,” Sarah told host Megan Pustetto.
“The vibes weren’t loved up. I left the farm wondering if he still liked me and wanted me there. I felt like we weren’t connecting like we were initially.”

The pair continued their long-distance relationship; however, the farmer didn’t put in much effort.
“Tom was supposed to be coming to Perth for a few days to see me graduate from university and see my family. I was so excited. I’d taken leave and planned this whole weekend for us,” Sara said.
“But he started ghosting me. For six days, I heard zero from him.” Yikes!
Sarah then texted Tom, letting him know that if she didn’t hear from him again, she would assume they were no longer together.
Tom finally replied and apologised, telling Sarah he’d been taking space because he wasn’t feeling as sure about her as he initially felt. But the pair still gave things another try.
Farmer Wants a Wife’s Tom GHOSTED Sarah again
However, sh*t hit the fan even more on the day of Sarah’s graduation.
“It got to the morning of my graduation, which was the day Tom had planned to fly in,” Sarah recalled. “He ghosted me and didn’t even book a ticket.” WTF!?
“I called him to see if I was picking him up from the airport, but he didn’t answer. It was crickets from him. And that’s when I pulled the plug.”
After he ghosted her the second time, Tom sent Sarah a long text message.
“It wasn’t an apology. He was explaining his point of view. But I didn’t know any of the issues he brought up in the message were problems for him at the time.
“I felt so disappointed that he didn’t tell me his concerns and ghosted us into a breakup.” And Farmer Joe, step aside because there’s a new president of the Red Flag Club President!
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