Real Housewives of Salt Lake City star Heather Gay has admitted that she misses her former co-star, Mary Cosby, after her departure from the show.

ICYMI: Mary didn’t show up for the season two reunion of RHOSLC after several uncomfortable interactions with housewife Jennie Nguyen, and conversations with the other women about her church allegedly being a cult.

Now, Heather has revealed that she has had zero contact with Mary since they filmed their last scenes together.

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Real Housewives of Salt Lake City star Heather Gay says she misses Mary Cosby following her departure from the show. Source: BravoTV.

Speaking to host Megan Pustetto in episode 217 of the So Dramatic! podcast, she admitted she was “shocked” her former castmate didn’t attend the reunion.

“I have not seen or heard from Mary since we were together filming Season Two,” she explained. “I was actually so shocked and surprised she didn’t come to the reunion.”

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Speaking exclusively to So Dramatic!, Heather revealed she’s had no contact with Mary since filming season two. Source: So Dramatic!

Heather Gay Says Mary Cosby Is a “Unique Individual”

Despite their ups and downs, the 40-year-old revealed that she thoroughly enjoyed Mary’s company and quirky personality.

“I absolutely noticed her absence. When we were all hanging out as friends, there was something about Mary that made us all a little bit on edge,” she confessed before adding: “Which was kind of great because we can get pretty comfortable, pretty fast.”

Even though Heather described Mary as “an absolutely unique individual”, in hindsight, she really enjoyed the drama she bought to the show.

“Sometimes that’s really hard because it challenges you,” she said. “But when they’re gone, you remember that it was nice to be poked and prodded a little bit… a bit of excitement!

“Like ‘oh, what’s going to happen?’ So yeah, I Miss Mary.”

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Despite their ups and downs, Heather admitted she enjoys Mary’s quirky personality. Source: BravoTV.

Why Did Mary Cosby Leave The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City?

Due to her marriage to her step-grandfather Robert Cosby Sr, Mary generated lots of attention during season one of RHOSLC.

However, the following season, things took an even darker turn when the Pentecostal First Lady’s fellow housewives began questioning whether she was, in fact, a cult leader.

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Mary is married to her step-grandfather Robert Cosby Sr. Source: BravoTV.

Following the allegations, Mary ditched the show cold turkey and was MIA at the reunion. Before eventually announcing she would not be returning to the show.

Mary Cosby’s Criminal Charges For Sheltering a Runaway Were Dropped

In 2021, Mary was charged with two counts of a misdemeanour for unlawfully providing shelter to a runaway and contributing to the delinquency of a minor.

She entered a plea of not guilty and the details surrounding the charges were kept private.

At the time, Mary’s representative told the Daily Beast: “Mary is saddened that she was dragged into another family’s domestic situation but is confident that this misunderstanding will be cleared up soon.”

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Mary’s fellow housewives questioned whether she was a cult leader during Season Two. Source: BravoTV.

Then, on September 18, 2022, Mary took to Instagram to share that the criminal charges against her were being dropped and reminded her followers that her primary goal in life is to please God.

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